Consider people’s facial expressions and tones of voice. How did you know when they were pleased, displeased, or confused by your actions? The emphasis is on the word how, because the how is what starts you on the path of analyzing the forms, intent, and effectiveness of communication.
This shows how rhetoric isn’t just about words. Like how tone or facial expressions can change the meaning of something. This is showing how body language and how it’s said are important when trying to understand someone.