listeners must be strong enough to hear the story without injury to themselves and 186 Critical Insights without either blaming or disbelieving the teller.
Yes I agree that you have to be locked in and able to take that information and believe it. Nor blaming it on someone.
This act of reconstruction “actually transforms the traumatic memory,” making it possible for survivors to live with their trauma
I think talking about the event and truly care and take time to help them get through what they’ve been through.
“wordless” and “frozen”
I agree that traumatic memories is wordless I think it’s more of a feeling.
2.9 pounds
Why so accurate
He should've carried her up the stairs to her room and tied her to the bed and touched that left knee all night long. He should've risked it. Whenever he looked at the photographs, he thought of new things he should've done
He really misses and wishes he had did things to probably strengthen the bond
because he knew she had boyfriends, because he loved her so much, and because he could see the shadow of the picture-taker spreading out against the brick wall
He’s very conscious and very worried and puts puzzle pieces together
Lieutenant Cross won-dered who had taken the picture,
Cross has trust issues
then at full dark he would return to his hole and watch the night and wonder if Martha was a virgin
Why is he worry about her so much.
They were signed Love, Martha, but Lieutenant Cross understood that Love was only a way of signing and did not mean what he sometimes pretended it meant
Are they dating or just good friends type deal
Ted Lavender, who was scared, car-ried tranquilizers until he was shot in the head outside
Why does he care so much and talk about Ted so much
carried condoms
What’s the point? Why
Kool-Aid
Why do they carry so much stuff?