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  1. Apr 2025
    1. I have chosen to use the terms lesbian existence and lesbian continuum because the word lesbianism has a clinical and limiting ring. Lesbian exis- tence suggests both the fact of the historical presence of lesbians and our continuing creation of the meaning of that existence. I mean the term lesbian continuum to include a range-through each woman's life and throughout history-of woman-identified experience.; not simply the fact that a woman has had or consciously desired genital sexual experi- ence with another w

      I really enjoy this perspective because, as a lesbian, it is limiting to use simply the term lesbianism as it does not fully encompass the entire being and idea of being a lesbian.

    2. surgery: it intends that women in the intimate proximity of polygynous marriage will not form sexual relationships with each other; that-from a male, genital-fetishist perspective-female erotic connections, even in a sex-segregated situa- tion, will be literally excis

      What are your thoughts on this take? Do you think it has merit? Why/why not? How do you think lesbian relationships would be affected by these procedures

    3. I do not, myself, assume that mothering-by-women is a "sufficient cause" of lesbian existenc

      What does the author mean by a sufficient cause? How do you interpret this sentence? Is it infantilizing lesbians? Why/why not?

    4. I will begin by way of examples, briefly discussing four books that have appeared in the last few years, written from different viewpoints and political orientations, but all presenting themselves, and favorably reviewed, as femin

      This is important for context in the reading because it showcases that the author is going to discuss and likely critique these feminist viewpoints

    5. rased. It will require a courageous grasp of the politics and economics, as well as the cultural propaganda, of heterosexuality to carry us beyond individual cases or diversified group situations into the complex kind of overview needed to undo the power men everywhere wield over women, power which has become a model for every other form of exploitation and ill

      Although I know this is not the end to the entire book that this is a part of, this is an important passage because it is a hell of a powerful way to end the chapter. It feels like a call to action even though it is not that explicitly

    6. ther. The lie of compulsory female heterosex- uality today afflicts not just feminist scholarship, but every profession, every reference work, every curriculum, every organizing attempt, every relationship or conversation over which it hovers. It creates, specifically, a profound falseness, hypocrisy, and hysteria in the heterosexual di- alogue, for every heterosexual relationship is lived in the queasy strobelight of that lie. However we chose to identify ourselves, however we find ourselves labeled, it flickers across and distorts our

      This is an important passage because it identifies female compulsory heterosexuality as a lie that the patriarchy presents and backs up even though it is just that: a lie.

    7. "eroticization of women's subordina

      Makes me think of when we were talking about Mackinnon last class and how we were talking about the sexualization of objectification and male dominance.

    8. Lesbian existence comprises both the breaking of a taboo and the rejection of a compulsory way of life. It is also a direct or indirect attack on male right of access to wo

      This makes me think of Butler again and when we were discussing her writing, we said labels are something you have to create to prevent what you do not want

    9. Biologically men have only one innate orientation-a sexual one that draws them to women,-while women have two innate orienta- tions, sexual toward men and reproductive toward their young.1

      It's interesting how Butler seems to permeate my thoughts even now, because this makes me think of how she says gender is performative and is something that one does, not something that one is. I feel like looking at this sentence from that point of view changes it quite drastically.

    10. I am concerned here with two other matters as well: first, how and why women's choice of women as passionate comrades, life partners, co-workers, lovers, tribe, has been crushed, invalidated, forced into hid- ing and disguise; and second, the virtual or total neglect of lesbian exis- tence in a wide range of writings, including feminist scholarship. Obvi- ously there is a connection here. I believe that much feminist theory and criticism is stranded on this shoal.

      This seems to be the thesis statement as the author is stating what they will be discussing in this paper and how they feel about it. In this, they say they will focus on the idea of female comradery being pushed aside and the erasure of lesbian existance

    11. sing. The fact is that women in every culture and throughout history have undertaken the task of independent, nonheterosexual, woman-connected existence, to the extent made possible by their context, often in the belief that they were the "only ones" ever to have don

      This sentence is stating that women in all cultures find community in other women the best they can give whatever circumstances they are in. But the issue with female separatism isn't that it's happening, but it's that each person thinks they are the first and only ones to do it

    12. he "scien- tific" romanticization of the home itself)

      This sentence seems to be alluding to the idea of trad wives and the "romanticization" of comp-het and the life that comes along with heterosexuality.

    13. utions. Feminist theory can no longer afford merely to voice a toleration of "lesbianism" as an "alternative life-style," or make token allusion to lesbians. A feminist critique of compulsory heterosexual orientation for women is long over- du

      This excerpt is saying a similar thing to the previous one, although it brings up the important point of compulsory heterosexual orientation. This is the idea that people, not just women, though the effect seems to be on mainly women, are expected to be heterosexual and that narrative is pushed on them by the society they live in

    14. . The assumption made by Rossi, that women are "innately sexually oriented" toward men, or by Lessing, that the lesbian choice is simply an acting-out of bitterness toward men, are by no means theirs alone; they are widely current in literature and in the social sci- ences

      This excerpt seems to be insinuating that lesbians cannot exist without the need to spite men and their existence. It seems the assumption is that lesbians make a choice to "defy men" when they "choose " to be a lesbian

  2. Mar 2025
    1. While the decision to remove “homosexuality” from DSM-III was a highly polemicized and public one, accomplished only under intense pressure from gay activists outside the profession, the addition to DSM-III of “Gender Identity Disorder of Child- hood” appears to have attracted no outside attention at all—nor even to have been perceived as part of the same conceptual shift.”

      My opinion on this is that it is very evident from this passage alone that the concepts of gender and sexuality were not thought to be even remotely intertwined at this point in time, leading to people ignoring an obvious attempt to force children into the pre-determined binaries (the Gender Identity Disorder diagnosis)

    2. He encourages predominantly gay young men to “reassure” their parents that they are “bisexual” (“Tell him just enough so he feels better” [RG, p. 207]) and to consider favorably the option of marrying and keep- ing their wives in the dark about their sexual activities (p. 205).

      I think this passage is significant because it showcases the idea that lying and being unfaithful is okay as long as you keep your "gayness" a secret from the world. It's treating it like it's some sort of illegal group that nobody should know you're a part of.

    3. One serious problem with this way of distinguishing between gender and sexuality is that, while denaturalizing sexual object-choice, it radi- cally renaturalizes gender.

      What does this mean in the context of this article? Does it have to do with a "less focus on one aspect means it grows more than the other" or is it something deeper than that?

    4. the virulence and chronicity of [social] stress [against it] puts homosexuality in a unique position in the human behav- ioral repertoire,” how to account for “the fact that severe, persistent mor- bidity does not occur more frequently” among gay adolescents

      Question: Why is it assumed that there is something innately different about gay people in terms of their psychology not only in the aspect of being gay, but also the way they deal with hate and bigotry? Does this tie into the other aspects of gay people being "different" or "wrong"?

    5. hat homosexuality is associated with some psychological mechanism, not nderstood or even studied to date, that protects the individual from di- u at protects the individual from di TESS PaVCHIATHTE UISOaENS" (p. 236). It “might include mechanisms influ- éncing ego resiliency, growth potential, and the capacity to form intimate FETESSNDS” aN. Rnd "is possi That for reasons thar have not yet been well described, [gender-disturbed boys’] mechanisms for coping with anguish and adversity are unusually effective”

      I took this passage to mean that the reason gay youth learn to be so resilient of the world they live in, that being gay comes along with more psychological defenses than the average person has in order to better deal with the backlash and hatred gay people endure. Of course, this isn't necessarily true. Gay people just have to learn much more resilience from a much younger age if they are to ever exist let alone thrive in this society.

    6. ‘Gay Male and Lesbian Youth Suicide’ do not in any way represent my personal beliefs or the policy of this Department. I am strongly committed to advancing traditional family values... . In my opinion, the views expressed in the paper run con- trary to that aim,”!

      Just like the government to go back on their word. But seriously, I find this passage interesting because it is completely contradicting a previous study (which is based on facts) due to a personal belief (which is based on opinion). I'm baffled how that was allowed, but I understand the societal norms and expectations were different around this time.

    7. It’s always open season on gay kids.

      I love this line because it really encapsulates the idea that gay people, especially gay kids, are always up for debate and critique.

    8. The reason effeminate boys turn out gay, according to this account, is that other men don’t validate them as masculine.

      The author of this article seems to be critiquing the books and articles they are drawing from, which is pretty impressive considering this article is from the 1980's.

    9. What the books I have been discussing, and the institutions to which they are attached, dem- onstrate is that the wish for the dignified treatment of already-gay people is necessarily destined to turn into either trivializing apologetics or, much worse, a silkily camouflaged complicity in oppression—in the absence ofa strong, explicit, erotically invested affirmation of some people’s felt desire or need that there be gay people in the immediate world.

      This seems to be the thesis statement, saying simply that gay people are expected to have something wrong with them that caused them to be gay. The idea that sexual orientation is inherent seems to be much less popular. This idea of gay people being "wrong" creates this unnecessary pity for gay people, placing preconceived notions about how they must have been abused by their father or forced to be more feminine by their sister because God forbid people have an innate sense of who they are.

    10. hat whets these fanta- sies more dangerously, because more blandly, is the presentation, often in ostensibly or authentically gay-affirmative contexts, of biologically based “explanations” for deviant behavior that are absolutely invariably couched in terms of “excess,” “deficiency,” or “imbalance”—whether in the hor- mones, in the genetic material, or, as is currently fashionable, in the fetal endocrine environment.

      This is stating that people are trying to argue that the cause of homosexuality is a physical one that can supposedly be "fixed". This is due to the idea that gay people are the deviant to the norm, which makes them more undesirable by societal standards

    11. At the same time, however, in the postmodern era it is becoming increasingly problematical to assume that grounding an iden- tity in biology or “essential nature” is a stable way of insulating it from societal interference.

      I took this to mean that one's identity, no matter if it's grounded in biology, is still subject to change due to the input of the world around them. Though your environment doesn't make you trans, it feels this is arguing that there are some parts of your gender that can be influenced by the world around you.

    12. a tradition of assuming that anyone, male or female, who desires a man must by definition be feminine; and that anyone, male or female, who desires a woman must by the same token be masculine.

      This is really interesting to me because there is that unspoken expectation for gay people that there's one "man" in the relationship and one "lady" whether or not the relationship actually includes a man or a woman. Yet another example of heteronormativity permeating every culture even where it doesn't belong.

    13. a girl gets this pathologizing label only in the rare case of asserting that she actually is anatomically male (e.g., “that she has, or will grow, a penis”); while a boy can be treated for Gender Iden- tity Disorder of Childhood if he merely asserts “that it would be better not to have a penis”—or alternatively, if he displays a “preoccupation with female stereotypical activities

      Interesting how gender and sex are interchangeable here, much unlike Butler's arguments