Yes and shame seems to be the weapon of choice; We may not see a gender transgressor blasted on a Current Affair, yet we shame. I am gender fluid, though this is the only forum i have ever shared this. Not gay, attracted my whole life to woman, yet also have an identity which is completely comfortable strongly visualizing and acting out in my imagination occasionally a woman, even writing narrative occasionally as a woman. BECAUSE SHAME WAS SUCH AN ENORMOUS WAY CERTAIN FAMILY MEMBERS AND SOCIAL CIRCLES punished anyone who transgresses, i keep it very private. Not bi-sexual, though easily go into a very feminine role occasionally when completely at ease and feeling safe, still comfortable with my manhood. I am 41 and have never shared this, ever even with my ex-wife, mother, certainly not dad. IT is predictable with any thing taboo, instinctively reacting with shame, things they are frightened of. So i keep it private, and find consolation in one individual who i admire from history on a huge scale, who also did this. Gaius Julius Caesar. I am never ashamed of it, but it is like, " why tell people', Society has changed a great deal yet, the extreme misogyny nearly all the men in my huge family lived by in the 80's and 90's scarred me. Scarred me very deeply