harsh treatment
Being treated harshly is hard to say or hard to talk about because you don't know if people will take it to heart. It's a difficult topic to talk about especially in a room full of people because you don’t know who has been through what. Maybe their relatives have been through those things. You just have to watch what you are saying overall. Talking to a person who has been through it...pretending I’m talking to Celie, that’s difficult because I don’t understand what she has been through because I have never been through it. If I do talk to someone like Celie, I would ask how she feels. If she isn’t ready to talk about this yet, then she shouldn’t be forced. Talking about this topic shouldn’t be forced to talk about. It’s the type of topic that should take time because there needs to be trust that builds between you and that person. Giving your full support is needed when you’re talking to people who has been through it or knows someone close to them who has been through it. These vulnerable people just want people there for them and when they see someone they adore, they look up to them as their escape route.