7.3.4. RIP trolling# RIP trolling is where trolls find a memorial page and then all work together to mock the dead person and the people mourning them. Here’s one example from 2013: A Facebook memorial page dedicated to Matthew Kocher, who drowned July 27 in Lake Michigan, had attracted a group of Internet vandals who mocked the Tinley Park couple’s only child, posting photos of people drowning with taunting comments superimposed over the images. One photo showed a submerged person’s hand breaking through the water with text reading “LOL u drowned you fail at being a fish,” according to a screen grab of the page shared with the Tribune after the post was removed. Cruel online posts known as RIP trolling add to Tinley Park family’s grief from the Chicago Tribune
This is a particularly disturbing online behavior because it directly targets individuals experiencing profound grief. For families who have lost loved ones, they simply seek a quiet space to commemorate and mourn, only to be abruptly invaded by strangers who provoke them with mockery and malicious jokes. Such actions go beyond mere attention-seeking; they constitute collective harm. When confronting RIP trolling, the priority should not be demanding victims endure it, but rather prompt platform intervention—swiftly removing content, restricting accounts, or even imposing permanent bans—to safeguard mourning spaces from abuse.