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  1. May 2025
    1. If sex-education has long been accepted by parentsand administrators, what’s stopping schools from including the LGBTQ+ dialogue in the classcurriculum? Perhaps the idea of sex-education only caters to cisgender and heterosexualaudiences. It’s okay for discourses regarding male and female genitalia to pervade classdiscussions, or for students to snide and chuckle whenever pictures of condoms appear on theprojector screen; but it’s not okay if a student wishes to understand why his male classmate iswearing a skirt in class, or why his female peer cut her hair short, or why he feels attracted to theboy sitting next to him at lunch.

      Rather than truly being out of "concern" for the safety of children, it feels like the inability to discuss the LGBTQ+ community with children really just feels like a desire to continue perpetuating a heteronormative society. This may in turn cause a lack of acceptance when they encounter those that are different later on, or self resentment if they believe themselves to be "different" from others.

    2. “I will say that, in terms of coming out in middle andhigh school, it’s definitely true that there is no set coming out experience. I told my Mom, andshe didn’t believe me, I told her later and she didn’t believe me. I told her two years later and shedidn’t believe me”

      This is really relatable on my own experiences as well. It has felt like "coming out" isn't necessarily an entire event, but rather something that happens multiple times. I've told my mom multiple times how I've felt about my own sexuality, and she hasn't believed me, even though I've been talking to her about it since high school.

    1. Only one-fifthof school personnel consistently responded to anti-LGBTQ incidents. Butjust over one-third of students reported that staff were present when studentsheard biased comments and staff did challenge those remarks.

      These rates are dishearteningly low; the fact that educators allow this sort of hate speech to continue is insane. In not saying anything, these staff members are unintentionally complicit in perpetuating this hate.

    2. A year after her killing, the school district that refusedto have a moment of silence for her immediately after her murder allowedthe anniversary to be acknowledged by having a "No Name Calling Day"

      This feels like such a shallow, surface-level change that feels almost insincere to Gunn's death. Changes like this merely serve to minimize the change, reducing these concepts into something that feels like ridicule. In order to truly make a change, deeper acts must be made, such as informing students of the importance of acceptance, or emphaiszing a need to be inclusive of everyone.

    3. Me~bers o[ school communities may believe that sexuality is not anappropriate topic for young people.

      This rationality feels almost contradictory to me, where despite how they feel sexuality isn't important, adults oftentimes enforce heteronormativity on children, such as calling a boy-girl pairing "boyfriend and girlfriend", or only presenting literature with heterosexual pairings. Regardless of what is "wanted", sexuality is already a part of day-to-day life.

    1. more recent work isfinding a new generation of parents who are intent on advocating for theirtransgender children

      As someone who identifies as transgender and whose parents aren't really supportive, it's really comforting to hear that this newer generation of parents is more ready to advocate for their children. It's really crucial for children to have a support system they can fall back on, and one's family is a really crucial component to allowing one to feel seen.

    2. More holisticapproaches to teaching about gender and sexuality diversities have shiftedaway from targeting individualized bullying situations to considering insteadhow the entire school should reframe its messages about gender and sexual-ity

      This seems like a better approach to changing the dynamic is schools-- rather than isolating specific scenarios or phrases that may be said, it may help to instead target a student's mentality altogether, allowing them to see the broader picture as opposed to isolated situations.

    3. Concerned that the institutional culture of schools not only creates rigidideas about gender but also pits one gender against the other,

      It really is concerning how normalized gender dynamics are, especially amongst younger children, such as splitting teams up by gender or just overall establishing this sense of competition between them. Considering just how young these children are, it's clear that it would impact their development and how they think, allowing them to think that these gender roles or stereotypes are normal and okay.

    1. Every year, thousands of families hire lawyers and sue the EducationDepartment, saying that because no adequate placement exists for them in the public system, the citymust pay tuition at a school like Cooke, which can cost anywhere from about $45,000 to more than$100,000 a year. T.J.’s family is doing the same

      It's really frustrating how despite the thousands of families who sue the Education Department each year, it seems that these issues keep perpetuating. I wonder if there have been (or can be) significant attempts to make these changes, or if these families are merely going to continue in this cycle.

    2. A federal law called the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act gives every child the right toservices and accommodations that will allow them to learn.

      Despite this law, it seems difficult to enforce that, especially when considering the fact that in New York alone, their digital database is prone to errors and glitches and can't verify whether or not students are truly receiving what they need. I feel like there should be some system that holds them more accountable to fulfilling these needs.

    3. In many cases, the city doesn’t even know in real time if children are getting what they need becausethe computer system designed to keep track of interventions, which has cost the city at least $130million, has been riddled with technical glitches and systemic problems since it was instituted in 2011.

      If these issues are so costly, I feel like there should be an attempt to at least hold schools accountable to manually report whether what they are receiving is adequate or not, as some sort of backup in response to these issues. If students aren't getting the resources they need, it'll become difficult to ensure the success of all of them.

    1. In this all-too-common scenario, if Lydia is different from others, she is the problem and the solution must focus on her.

      I find it really sad that this is the general outlook on children who are disabled or special needs. Rather than identifying their situation as a "problem", it should instead be approached in an easier and kinder way. This sort of approach I feel could unintentionally be demeaning to the student, impacting their own self-image on things they really can't control.

    2. Identity is multiple, contradictory, and dynamic, and she, like everyone else, is a multi-faceted being with many complex overlapping identities

      I find this definition of identity to be especially beautiful, as it acknowledges that someone's identity isn't merely one thing or another-- it's a blend of many different, sometimes contradictory, components that all create a singular being.

    1. nvolving students’ families is also essential. Information sessions and parent workshops can beorganized to explain various aspects of the IDEA. Family members need to know their rights asdecision makers and the kinds of behavior and learning problems IDEA defines as disabilities.This information will allow them to make the best decisions, including those involving the refusalof special education placemen

      Beyond just workshops, I believe it's important to simply spread general resources as to how crucial an individual's rights are, and what is or is not considered a disability. Having all these factors in mind, only then can an individual make the best decision for them.

    2. Additionally, research shows that when students of color need special services in certain areas,they often do not receive them.

      I find it so interesting how despite this clear need for help, students not only do not receive these services, the ones who don't are deemed instead to be emotionally or intellectually disabled. It feels really unfair to students to receive this sort of treatment, and it definitely would not help with their learning.