When Love and Life first meet, a radiant thing is born, without a shade. When the roads begin to roughen, when the shades begin to darken, when the days are hard, and the nights cold and long—then it begins to change. Love and Life will not see it, will not know it—till one day they start up suddenly, crying, ‘O God! O God! we have lost it! Where is it?’ They do not understand that they could not carry the laughing thing unchanged into the desert, and the frost, and the snow. They do not know that what walks beside them still is the Joy grown older.
Love and Life are unable to recognize that their Joy could not remain the same over time and that it was inevitable that it would change. Experiences and hardships alter an individual and their personality, and this is what had happened to Joy as well. This change had been seen to be negative by Love and Life since they had not expected Joy to change and become Sympathy. They express love for Sympathy and cannot imagine a life in which it is not present. The assistance that they had received from Sympathy throughout their journey was the reason that they had been able to complete it. Individuals grow older and change over time, and this leads to building and developing their character. It is impossible for these changes to be avoided, as also illuminated by the wise old woman. Why are changes viewed to be a frightening occurrence when they display that they hold the capacity to greatly enhance life?