“You gave me hyacinths first a year ago; “They called me the hyacinth girl.” —Yet when we came back, late, from the Hyacinth garden, Your arms full, and your hair wet, I could not Speak, and my eyes failed, I was neither Living nor dead, and I knew nothing, Looking into the heart of light, the silence.
Men and Women/Romance: Today hyacinths can mean a number of things ranging from commitment and beauty, to power and pride. I think it would be appropriate to tie this flower choice in particular to Greek myth, given Eliot's other allusions. The myth is that Hyacinthus, a beautiful spartan prince, was favored by many including wind gods and Apollo, the sun god. Despite being courted by many, Hyacinthus chose Apollo and the two were very happy until they were prematurely separated by a discus accident. Apollo, not willing to lose his lover so soon, begged to be made mortal so he could die and be with Hyacinthus, though he was denied by Hades. Instead, Apollo grew the flower we now know as Hyacinths from the spilled blood of Hyacinthus.
As it pertains to the poem, I think that the choice for this flower could be Eliot's way of commenting on the doomed nature of love in an unpredictable world and that escaping tragedy is futile.
