"And then I can use her more in the house," I heard my mother say. She had a dead-quiet regretful way of talking about me that always made me uneasy. "I just get my back turned and she runs off. It's not like I had a girl in the family at all."
Traditionally, female daughters are expected to take care of the house together with their mother, so they are taught from an early age that this is their duty. The opposite is true for boys who, although they work, have more freedom.