guilt-trip women
Guilt tripping women seems to be a massive issue, whether it be abortion, their clothing and appearance, their choice to have/not have children, or even their parenting choices once they do have children. I would argue that even women are adept at criticizing and guilting one another rather than providing support. Mothers in particular tend to be the target of scrutiny and I have heard many express frustration that they "cannot do anything right". Anything from breastfeeding to toys to education can create discourse and lead to women being shamed. If you homeschool your child, you are not adequately preparing them. If you do not homeschool them and work full time, you are not an involved mother. If you send them to a public school, you are not setting them up as well as they might be at a private school. Rarely do men seem to be held to these same standards. In fact, so long as men are merely present, people will often behave as though they are inherently wonderful fathers. This overarching narrative of women being solely responsible for their children's success and being forced into traditional roles in the name of upholding the household is detrimental to women's autonomy and overall, to their own wellbeing.