“ Give up this !” said Life. “When the thorns have pierced me, who will suck the poison out? When my head throbs, who will lay his tiny hands upon it and still the beating? In the cold and the dark, who will warm my freezing heart?”
Here we see a moment of dependency. Life cannot live without Love around to help her through all of the bad things that could happen to her. Schreiner could be commenting here on how this is how many women during this time sounded; they always needed a man beside them to help them through everything because they did not know how to be independent and take are of themselves. This is something that she clearly wants to change and could be a reason why she felt she needed to have a dialogue such as this one. She may have wanted women to hear what they sounded like when they said things like this and how this is not the way women should be speaking about themselves. She felt that women should hold themselves to a higher standard and not need a man around to do everything for them.