I can tell you that my experience is that intentional communities are not only not fun, but a disaster. 00:51:53 And one of the reasons they're both not fun and a disaster is that they have a mission statement. They already know where they're going and there's some abstracted map-like idea that everyone thinks that they're cohering to. But then it turns out that everyone actually interpreted that differently and the way they interpreted it yesterday changed. And so that thing becomes 00:52:16 the territory on which you are in polarity with each other and not the thing that you agree about. The thing you fight about most is the mission statement.
- for: ecological civilization
- Nora Bateson
- Nora shares about the many diverse intentional communities she has lived in and found them all dysfunctional.
- The problem is that they have a mission statement, a purpose.
- The perspectival knowing is different for each person.
- How do you nurture unintentional community?
- support unintentional possibility
- top-down instructional is an unecological process
- The question "who can you be when you are with me?" is preferred over "what should you be?"
- Nora Bateson