for - quote / key insight - die before we die - Donald Hoffman - We will each die. That's incontrovertible. - So any attachments I have to this world will cease. - There's no doubt. - The question is can I let go of the attachments now - or will they only go for my cold dead hand?

• adjacency - example - cliche - die before we die - Donald Hoffman

for - cliche - the finger pointing to the moon - the finger is not the moon - language is NOT the experience it describes - from Psychology Today website - article - What Oliver Sacks Taught Me - Susan R. Barry - 2024 - Jan. 23

for - cliche - the more things change, the more they remain the same - quote - labour - transforming - to - spiritual - sacred - meaningful - Benjamin Suriano - adjacency - meaninglessness of labour in modernity - sacred - spiritual - reviving spirit of monastics Benjamin Suriano - meaning crisis - John Vervaeke

adjacency - between - the meaninglessness of labour in modernity - Benjamin Suriano - the proposal for revival of labour as spiritual activity -- mitigating the meaning crisis - John Vervaeke - adjacency relationship - In his PhD dissertation, Benjamin Suriano argues that reviving the spirit of Christian monastics of the medieval era could mitigate modernity's meaning crisis.

quote - labour - transforming - to - spiritual - sacred - meaningful - Benjamin Suriano - (see below) - Because the substantial surplus expropriated by the few - allowed them to invest their time into developing a state, military, and cultural apparatus that reproduced their exploitative position of privilege, - the collective consciousness ruling this sociopolitical body tended to comprehend its free citizenship abstractly, - as if a natural given, - with little consciousness of the contribution of the laboring body

Résumé de la vidéo [00:00:00][^1^][1] - [00:17:51][^2^][2]:

Cette vidéo aborde le déni et l'impact des agressions sexuelles sur la masculinité des hommes. Elle met en lumière les stéréotypes et les difficultés rencontrées par les hommes victimes de viol.

Moments forts: + [00:00:00][^3^][3] Peur des hommes après une agression * Sentiment de vulnérabilité * Peur d'être seul avec un homme * Réactions corporelles mal interprétées + [00:01:01][^4^][4] Érections et consentement * Érections perçues comme consentement * Différence entre réactions corporelles et désir * Stigmatisation des victimes masculines + [00:03:00][^5^][5] Expérience personnelle d'agression * Pression sociale et culpabilité * Difficulté à se considérer comme victime * Impact psychologique profond + [00:07:00][^6^][6] Minimisation des agressions * Déni et difficulté à reconnaître l'agression * Importance de nommer les actes * Conséquences graves sur la santé mentale + [00:12:00][^7^][7] Déni et reconnaissance * Déni initial des agressions * Importance de la reconnaissance et du soutien * Difficulté à trouver de l'aide appropriée

Ces moments forts montrent les défis uniques auxquels sont confrontés les hommes victimes d'agressions sexuelles et l'importance de reconnaître et de soutenir ces victimes.

Résumé de la vidéo [00:17:53][^1^][1] - [00:26:50][^2^][2]:

Cette vidéo aborde les défis auxquels sont confrontés les hommes victimes de viol, en particulier le déni et l'impact sur leur masculinité. Elle met en lumière les difficultés rencontrées pour obtenir de l'aide et la stigmatisation sociale.

Moments forts: + [00:17:53][^3^][3] Révélation de l'agression * Partage de l'expérience en ligne * Réaction du père * Difficulté à trouver un spécialiste + [00:18:51][^4^][4] Thérapie inefficace * Minimisation de l'agression par le psychiatre * Impact négatif sur la guérison * Importance de trouver le bon thérapeute + [00:19:59][^5^][5] Thérapie EMDR * Reprogrammation du cerveau * Amélioration de la gestion des traumatismes * Acceptation et meilleure qualité de vie + [00:22:00][^6^][6] Peur des hommes * Difficulté à faire confiance * Impact sur les relations sociales * Confrontation avec l'agresseur + [00:24:00][^7^][7] Démarches judiciaires * Tentatives de porter plainte * Obstacles rencontrés * Importance du soutien des autorités

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for - chronic disease - usually chronic is not a good sign - too much of a good thing turns out to be bad - it means too much of something, like inflammation will cause harm - when inflammation knob is stuck on high, it becomes a problem

metaphor - inflammation and forest fire - If you are camping in the forest, a small fire keeps you warm and you can cook - Inflammation is like that small fire going out of control and burning the whole forest down

• for: cliche, violence begets violence, abuser-abused cycle, collective therapy

• comment

  • There is a massive need for collective therapy on all sides
    • Everyone values (human) life as sacred, yet deeds that intentionally bring about death reveals that our value of life as sacred is ONLY APPLIES TO ONE CULTURAL GROUP.
    • The creation of a relative conception of the word sacred creates
      • ingroups (where the sacred applies) and
      • outgroups (where it does not apply)
  • The intentional death of a person due to war, along with current practitioners of angst-basted anger gives rise to the next generation of hatred
  • Hence, today's abused become tomorrow's abusers
  • It is paradoxical that each side of warring cultures have highly learned religious men who give their blessings to the sacred ingroup warriors
  • It is the lack of genuine understanding of the abuser-abused cycle that keeps both sides locked in armed conflict

Work experience student from The Shrinking Morbid Hasbeen (SMH) kicks off with a crusty cliche. Journalists back at the office he's been supporting with coffee runs impressed they've been matched for mediocrity.

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