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  1. Jun 2025
    1. predatory ‘Dominants’ and unsuspecting subs in the community. There were also many novice kinksters unsure of how to safely learn the ropes.

      still a concern to many kinksters. the plethora of information harm reduction at our disposal through disconnected forums and blogs has not reached its educational goals. Even for those who are driven to learning, simple barriers to self teaching include [not knowing the words to search], the dilution of valuable information hidden behind sponsored articles, niche intersections of fantasy which are not traditionally represented in harm reduction materials.

  2. Apr 2024
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  6. Mar 2015
  7. Feb 2015
    1. The disaggregation of news in the Internet age has inverted this relationship, and made news outlets hypersensitive to the interests of their readers. This is a positive development. It’s good that the media covers stories that its constituents are interested in and want to read about. It’s good when news outlets are connected to the communities they serve.

      I'm not so sure this is the case across the board. Our desires don't always serve us.

      I sometimes do want gatekeepers to prevent me from hurting myself.

      I don't know how to translate this into advice for the next generation of media, though.